Failure

so i am writing after a long time because i just didn't get around to it. Sorry :/

today my topic will be FAILURE.

what is failure? do we even have a definitive answer for it? not its definition that Failure is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective, and may be viewed as the opposite of success.

But is my failure and your failure even the same thing?

what are we actually failing at? 

in not passing your exams,not getting a job or promotion,not having a car,not having a boyfriend/girlfriend failure?

or is it so much bigger than that? i would have to say it obviously is 

our failure to accept people the way they are,our failure to realize we are not doing things to the best of our abilities,our failure to accept change as it is proceeding,our failure to accept mutual differences and embrace them.

we have become a machine and our lives are becoming a cyclic process. Be born,go to school,get a job which doesn't make you happy but hey it pays! so you do it halfheartedly anyways because it has "prospects" and it is the right thing to do and that's what makes you "Successful" and keep doing that until you retire/die or in case you are a woman get married(in most cases).meanwhile get arranged to a marriage,have a few kids,spend all your money to send them to school/college so they can have a life just like you etc.

but is that what you really want to do cause if you do,good for you my friend,but if you have some talents and a vision of what to do with it that is not living the life mentioned above and you are not doing anything about it.

That to me is FAILURE.

INTOLERANCEPTION:- INTOLERANCE OF INTOLERANCE

So yesterday i was talking to my sister and we started talking about intolerance.

She suggested that i should write my thoughts about it and i said why not!

I started thinking about how intolerant we have become or have we?

I feel we have become intolerant of things which don't matter much which is okay. Just because someone else has bigger problems that does not invalidate your's and one should be able to voice their opinions.

BUT the thing is in all this we are actually becoming more tolerant.

MORE tolerant of corruption,inequality,distinction on the basis of caste,creed and religion.Which is not exactly a good thing we as members of this society are so focused on the little things that we are forgetting about more important issues.

I am not saying that we don't think about it or feel bad about it but in the end we give up and say that's how it is,it has been and it'll be and what can i do no one is going to listen to me and think that i am the only one who feels like this and i am alone

BUT ARE WE REALLY???

NO,I don't think so.i think we are trying to bring change where it's easy but not where it is needed and matters...

We are becoming intolerant of people not respecting others personal space but not of misogyny,we are intolerant of people reading our texts but not of LGBTQ group not being allowed to live a normal life,we are intolerant of someone eating a cow but not of someone honour killing their own child.

so yeah i am intolerant of our intolerance of things which are not as important

and feel free to be intolerant of my intolerance of intolerance ;)

First post..

So I thought a lot about what my first post should be maybe about inequality or politics or maybe even Bollywood's unrealistic portrayal of life and laws of physics.


But then i thought maybe my first post on my first blog should be about us and what is expected of us.


Isn't it weird that we tell others to love themselves but don't actually want them to like if someone actually likes their-self we call them snobby or shallow or ignorant.


But WHY??


why do we as society want to appear supportive but don't really wanna support?


and is it really mean?


i don't really know as i am both of them the person who is being told to love their-self and as the person who is telling others to love themselves but don't want them to as it would lower my confidence (since i have not accepted myself totally either)


because we are not expected to actually accept a human being(ourself or others) actually content.we talk about a Utopian society but do we really want to live there?


i don't think so as a specie who wants things to get better but doesn't want anything to change


we can agree on one thing that our future is doomed...OR MAYBE NOT who knows