Failure

so i am writing after a long time because i just didn't get around to it. Sorry :/

today my topic will be FAILURE.

what is failure? do we even have a definitive answer for it? not its definition that Failure is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective, and may be viewed as the opposite of success.

But is my failure and your failure even the same thing?

what are we actually failing at? 

in not passing your exams,not getting a job or promotion,not having a car,not having a boyfriend/girlfriend failure?

or is it so much bigger than that? i would have to say it obviously is 

our failure to accept people the way they are,our failure to realize we are not doing things to the best of our abilities,our failure to accept change as it is proceeding,our failure to accept mutual differences and embrace them.

we have become a machine and our lives are becoming a cyclic process. Be born,go to school,get a job which doesn't make you happy but hey it pays! so you do it halfheartedly anyways because it has "prospects" and it is the right thing to do and that's what makes you "Successful" and keep doing that until you retire/die or in case you are a woman get married(in most cases).meanwhile get arranged to a marriage,have a few kids,spend all your money to send them to school/college so they can have a life just like you etc.

but is that what you really want to do cause if you do,good for you my friend,but if you have some talents and a vision of what to do with it that is not living the life mentioned above and you are not doing anything about it.

That to me is FAILURE.